What I was working on
Being more present in my relationship.
“I realised I was bringing work stress home too often. The Affinity reminds me to slow down and give more attention to the person who matters.”
Stephanie · Singapore · August
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The Affinity
人缘For the relationships worth showing up for.
For Love, Friendship & Meaningful Connection
Created for women entering a new chapter who want to bring warmth, openness and discernment to love, friendship and work. The Affinity is a daily anchor for meaningful connection without losing sight of your own standards.
Strawberry QuartzGolden Rutilated QuartzGold Crown Charm
S$238
Included with your piece
Complimentary · S$328 value
Personal Blueprint
SGD 128
Intention Ritual
SGD 178
Home Ritual Kit
SGD 22
Included at no extra cost with every JIN bracelet.
Wrist Size
Women's wrist range: 13–15 cm. Measure your actual wrist; we add the comfort allowance when preparing your bracelet.
What happens next
1
Choose your wrist size
2
Complete checkout
3
We email you for Blueprint details while your bracelet is prepared
The JIN 30-Day Assurance
Full refund within 30 days, no questions asked. Purchase with complete confidence.
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Complimentary resizing within 60 days of purchase
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Personalised JIN Qimen Blueprint™ Included
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Free Singapore delivery · arrives in 3 working days
Need help choosing?
Take the JIN Compass →Is The Affinity you?
You're warm, thoughtful, and genuinely interested in people. But conversations stay polite — and the connection you're looking for never quite arrives.
You give more than you receive. You show up for others, and you're still waiting for someone to show up for you the same way.
You're not looking for more people. You're looking for the right ones — in love, in friendship, in the chapter you're stepping into.
That's what The Affinity is for. A daily anchor for the woman who is ready to stop chasing closeness — and start recognising it when it arrives.
The Central Idea
You are not hard to love.
You are hard to reach.
The Affinity is for the woman who is warm, capable, and genuinely interested in others — but whose relationships stay at the level of polite, pleasant, and carefully managed. Not because she doesn't want depth. Because something in her has learned to protect itself before depth can arrive.
You give generously. You show up for people. You're the one who remembers, checks in, makes space. And you're still waiting for someone to do the same for you.
The Affinity isn't about attracting more people. It's about becoming more available to the right ones — and trusting yourself enough to let them in.
Every time you glance down, it's not asking you to be more open. It's reminding you that the connection you want is already possible — you just have to stay in the room long enough to let it happen.
情
Love
Opening yourself to a genuine relationship
Not attracting any partner, but becoming emotionally ready for a connection that feels reciprocal and sincere. Someone who chooses you without hesitation — and stays.
友
Friendship
Finding people with whom you can be fully yourself
Especially meaningful during a new life phase — after friendships change, after a move, after entering a new social environment. The kind of friendship that lasts.
业
Work
Building warmer, more supportive professional relationships
Joining a new company, meeting clients, working across teams or needing stronger rapport. The mentor who sees your potential. The colleague who becomes a genuine ally.
JIN Story
Crystal Composition
Strawberry Quartz
Warmth · Openness · 人缘
Golden Rutilated Quartz
Light · Presence · Detail
Gold Crown Charm
Intention · Self-possession · Choice
Together, the three elements of The Affinity represent a journey: from being emotionally guarded to becoming more open, expressive and ready for meaningful connection.
Strawberry Quartz is the warmth and receptivity stone. Its soft dusty-rose tone is associated with an open, welcoming presence — the energy of allowing connection rather than forcing it. People feel it before they can explain it. It is the stone that makes you easy to approach and easy to remember.
Golden Rutilated Quartz is the confidence and signal stone. The fine gold rutile threads catch light from every angle — associated with the courage to be seen, to communicate honestly, and to participate more fully in relationships. It amplifies what you already carry and sends it outward.
The Gold Crown Charm anchors the intention of the entire bracelet. It is not decoration. It is a quiet declaration: you are not waiting to be chosen. You are choosing.
Together, they create a bracelet designed not simply to make you more visible — but to draw toward you the people who were always meant to be in your life.
Crystal traditions are beliefs held across cultures. Results are not scientifically guaranteed.
8mm Strawberry Quartz · 8mm + 12mm Golden Rutilated Quartz · Gold Crown Charm · Elastic cord · Adjustable
❖ The Complete JIN Experience
Not just a bracelet.A complete personal practice.
Every JIN purchase is a complete experience — the bracelet, the personalised Blueprint, the activation ritual, and the home kit are all part of what you receive. None of it is an add-on.
01 · Blueprint
JIN Personal Qimen Blueprint™
How the Blueprint worksTwo women can want the same closeness and still experience relationships very differently. One may attract good people but remain guarded when connection begins to deepen. Another may offer warmth too quickly and repeatedly accept relationships without reciprocity. A third may appear open while quietly waiting for others to prove that it is safe to be chosen.
No element matching is required to choose The Affinity. Your JIN Personal Qimen Blueprint™ is included as a deeper layer of personal guidance after purchase. Your personalised JIN Qimen Blueprint™ explores the patterns that influence how you relate, communicate and allow others to come closer — so The Affinity is not only something you wear, but part of a more considered understanding of the relationships you attract and the quality of connection you help create.
How you naturally express warmth, trust and emotional openness
The protective patterns that appear when connection becomes meaningful
The relationship conditions that support genuine reciprocity
Timing for when to initiate, open up, clarify or allow space
How to distinguish true affinity from attention that cannot sustain you
The bracelet supports the intention. The Blueprint helps you understand the pattern.
02 · Before Dispatch
JIN Intention Activation Ritual™
Selecting the crystal is only the beginning.
In the JIN tradition, a crystal is not considered complete until it has been prepared with intention. This is what happens before your bracelet reaches you.
净
Cleanse
Washed with filtered water, then purified with White Sage. Every trace of residual energy is cleared.
唤
Awaken
Activated with a crystal singing bowl, timed to the Qi Men Dun Jia auspicious hour for that day.
充
Recharge
Placed inside an amethyst geode for 12 hours. The crystal's energy is fully replenished.
定
Align
Sealed with your personal intention, submitted at checkout. The crystal is now yours — and only yours.
Personal Qimen Blueprint™ · Pre-dispatch activation · Home ritual kit · Signature packaging — all included
Your Daily Ritual
Choose Openness With Discernment
How to wear it with intention. The bracelet is a physical object. These practices are what give it meaning. Each one takes less than thirty seconds.
Morning · When putting it on
Open Without Losing Yourself
Touch the crown charm and say:
“Today, I remain open without abandoning myself.”
Openness is not the absence of boundaries. It is the willingness to be known within them.
→ The right people don't need you to perform. They need you to be present.
Before a social or personal encounter
Release the Performance
Take one breath before entering and ask:
“Who would I be if I did not need to impress anyone?”
Allow your attention to move from how you are being perceived to who is genuinely in front of you.
→ You can't connect with someone while managing how you appear to them.
During a meaningful conversation
Stay One Moment Longer
When you feel yourself deflecting, changing the subject or retreating into politeness, remain present. Offer one honest sentence or ask one sincere question:
“Connection deepens when I allow myself to be seen.”
→ Staying one moment longer is where real connection begins.
Evening · Before removing it
Recognise Reciprocity
Recall one interaction from the day and ask:
“Did I feel more like myself — or less?”
Let that answer guide where you invest your warmth next.
→ Being needed is not the same as being cherished. Know the difference.
The Affinity does not ask you to chase connection.
It reminds you to recognise the relationships in which closeness can grow.
Customer notes on The Affinity
“The colours are really very pretty and easy to match. I wear it often.”
Ariel · Singapore · August
“The colours are even prettier in person and very easy to match with my outfits. It feels comfortable on my wrist, and the packaging was really lovely too. Very happy with my Affinity!”
Michelle Tan（陈慧玲） · Singapore · August
The Difference
What makes JIN different?
Not all crystals are equal
Designed for
Love, meaningful friendships, and the right relationships at every stage of life
Ideal wearer
Women seeking genuine connection — in romance, friendship, or early-career relationship building
Crystals
Strawberry Quartz, Golden Rutilated Quartz
Charm
Gold crown charm — intention anchor and feminine power symbol
Bead size
8mm Strawberry Quartz · 8mm + 12mm Golden Rutilated Quartz
Bracelet style
Soft, feminine, warm
Cord
Elastic cord — adjustable to selected wrist size
Personalisation
JIN Personal Qimen Blueprint™ included
Preparation
JIN Intention Activation Ritual™ — four steps before dispatch
Packaging
Signature box, suede pouch, Certificate of Authenticity
Origin
Designed in Singapore
Natural variation
Strawberry Quartz colour depth varies naturally — no two pieces are identical
Wrist Size
Women: 13–15 cm
Wear The Affinity when…
Going on a first date
Attending a social event where you want to connect
Meeting someone whose attention matters
Starting a new job and building relationships fast
Reconnecting with someone important
Entering a new social circle
Rebuilding confidence after a difficult relationship
Showing up as the most open version of yourself
Attending a wedding, dinner, or gathering
Wearing your intention to be found
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